Cemetery Reflection: Sa Pader ng Alaala

Photo courtesy of dosafl.com

Stacked tombs rise like verses in a forgotten prayer—painted in fading blues and greens, each one a name held in concrete silence. The wall does not weep, but it remembers. It holds the weight of stories too quiet for daylight.

Below, two figures sit in the hush of lamplight. One comforts, one listens. Between them, a warmth glows—not from candles, but from presence. In this place of endings, they offer what the dead once gave: companionship, memory, love.

This is not a scene of fear.
It is a vigil.
A soft rebellion against forgetting.

Here, in the shadow of tombs, we learn that grief is not loud—it is layered.
It is sitting still.
It is speaking softly to those who can no longer answer.


© 2025 Amee  Tala at Dilim Writes

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Pamahiin in Filipino Culture: Beliefs, Origins, and Meaning

Image
  A Pause Between Parts: Remembering Why We’ve shared Parts 1 to 5 of our curated pamahiin archive—superstitions on everyday life, dreams, doorways, and death. Each entry is a thread. Each belief is a whisper. Now, before we continue, we pause. To ask: What is pamahiin? Where did these beliefs come from? Why do they still echo in our rituals, even when we say we don’t believe? Pamahiin: A Living Archive of Filipino Superstitions Before we define, we remember They arrive without warning—passed down in whispers, stitched into daily rhythm, spoken by Lola and Lolo, echoed by instinct. Some of the most enduring Filipino superstitions remain alive in kitchens, doorways, dreams, and at dusk. They guide us through everyday life, dreams and omens, home and protection, death and mourning, and more. And then we ask: What is pamahiin? Why do we still follow them, even when we smile and say we don’t believe? That’s when we begin the reflection—gently, bilingually, like a ritual...
Read more

Pamahiin at Kababalaghan – Part 7

Image
  Pagkain at Hapag-Kainan- Rituals at the Table Sa bawat hapag, may paniniwala. In every meal, there is memory. Filipino food is not just nourishment—it’s wrapped in ritual, caution, and care. These pamahiin remind us to eat with respect, serve with love, and protect with intention. Ang pagkain ay panata. Ang hapag ay altar. 20 Filipino Superstitions on Food and Dining - Pamahiin sa Pagkain at Hapag-Kainan Huwag magwalis pagkatapos kumain Sweeping right after a meal may sweep away blessings or luck. Kung may natirang pagkain sa plato, hindi ka makakapangasawa ng maganda/gwapo Leaving food may reflect ingratitude and affect future relationships. Pag nahulog ang kutsara o tinidor, may bisitang darating A spoon signals a female visitor, while a fork signals a male. Bawal kumain habang nakatayo It’s believed to cause indigestion or disrespect for the meal. Huwag mag-abot ng pagkain sa ibabaw ng mesa Passing food over the table may invite conflict or bad ene...
Read more

Between Light and Shadow

Welcome to Tala at Dilim Writes —a quiet space where stories rest, reflections breathe, and sometimes, the shadows whisper back. I’m Amee, and this blog is my journal of softness and strangeness, stillness and shadow. Here, you’ll find short fiction, personal musings, gentle self-care, and the occasional haunting. I write from the in-between: the hush before sleep, the memory that lingers, the feeling you can’t quite name. Some days, I’ll share stories—real or imagined. Other days, I’ll write about rest, healing, and the quiet rituals that keep us whole. And sometimes, I’ll let the dark speak, softly. This is a space for those who feel deeply, dream vividly, and believe that even shadows can be tender. Thank you for being here. I hope you find something that stays.  Hanggang sa muli. © 2025 Amee  Tala at Dilim Writes
Read more